For this child I prayed and the Lord has granted the desires of my heart. 1 Samuel 1:27
Our names are Tony & Janet. We are so hopeful about building our family through adoption. We have been together for 15 years (married 12 years). Our desire to parent is natural, deep, and strong. The best day of our life was when we found out that we were chosen by our son’s birth mom to adopt her son! Another best day was when we first met our child! Adoption is so hard because some members of the adoption triad are with, while others are without.
We are completely interested in being a part of an open adoption! We are happy to build upon the relationship that you choose. We care about you, so let us know what you need. We would be happy to maintain and build a loving relationship over the years. Please share with us your fears and concerns. We want to be respectful of you and what you need.
We find that an open adoption is important. We want our son to know his first family. It’s valuable that he knows who he is, where he came from, and that most importantly he remains to be loved. He needs to know that he started in a very loving environment and joined a family and entered into a community where this love continues and that he is in a safe, stable and welcoming environment. We want our son to have a complete self identity and the opportunity to build relationships with his birth family. We don’t want our son to have missing puzzle pieces and grow up with unknowns.
We, Tony and Janet, had excellent upbringings and love sharing the core values of a loving, stable, and faith filled family with our child. This is us: sound judgment and strong roots. We have been praying for you in your journey and ask that you also pray for us in ours. Our journey together is just beginning!!!