Fernanda and Lance - My Baby's Family

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Dear birthmom,

Thank you so much for taking the time to read our letter. I know it sounds cliché but we cannot imagine how difficult this decision must be for you, while you are trying to figure out the best plan for you and the baby.

We hope with this letter you feel supported in this process, no matter the outcome. We would love to connect with you and get to know you better and make an adoption plan together. Adoption has always been an option and something we talked about constantly since we met each other. Lance shared so much about how he felt being adopted at birth, and how his adoptive parents raised him always knowing that he was chosen.

Our promise to you is that we will love and cherish this child unconditionally. We have longed to be parents and we can provide a safe and loving home, where their feelings and creativity are respected and encouraged, and where love and partnership are constant. We cannot wait to explore all holidays and milestones with him/her and to watch life through their eyes.

Our hope is that years from now you will feel good knowing that you placed your child with a family who will always love them and make them priority in their lives. Your child will always know of the love you have for them, so much that you put them first by choosing adoption.

Finally, we just want to say thank you for considering adoption, and thank you for considering us as a family. We love each other deeply and have so much love to share.

Best wishes!

The Spratts